Her Ambitions! ❤

"I wish to achieve my dreams. I'm an ambitious woman who can turn every impossibility into a possibility to live up to my dreams." A girl who's merely in her twenty's or maybe above makes this statement and what comes back to her is the reflection of our so called society. 

"She must be sleeping around with her boss that's why she got a promotion." Says one.

"She must be neglecting her duties as a wife, mother, daughter or daughter in law. She nust be really irresponsible at her daily chores." Says another.

"She goes out on office parties wearing fancy formals. She's doing it all to bag a nice position so that she may get noticed by her superiors." 

Such phrases are quite common when we talk about a women being ambitious. That's how our perfect society has portrayed a woman who's on a high to achieve her goals. 
According to the people, if a woman has reached the height of success then it's a necessity that she has used someone to be the ladder to reach that point. 
I can't understand, why is that? 
Can't we accept the fact, that a woman too can have the determination to reach out for her ambitions. Can't we accept that she has worked hard enough to achieve the position she has today. Maybe she just deserves to be where she is, then why are we questioning her capabilities.
Why is it that we just can't acknowledge the fact that if a woman is determined, she can do what she wish to and achieve what she desires.

Consider the Sheena Bora case, Indrani, her mother is believed to be the culprit. But then, people state that she was ambitious that's why she did it. Why is that so?
What does her ambitions has to do with the conspiracy she created? How does it actually matters?

Think about it, because if it's really true then I wonder what would you call your daughter, sister, wife or mother is ready to achieve her dreams yet take care of you, who's willing to fight for her right to education yet never disappoints you by irresponsible about her duties. 
Remember people, a successful man is successful when he has a supportive spouse, mother or sister who makes him free from the burden of household and raising kids. She accepts that you're hard working enough to reach where you are then why can't you believe in her achievements too.  

Think about it. 

‪#‎Maisha‬ ❤